My first meal “back” in Singapore
Homecoming. It’s a word that until a few years ago I wasn’t very familiar with. I mean I knew what it was, there was homecoming at my American high school in Taipei, but it wasn’t until college at Syracuse that I understood what it stood for. At first I thought it was just guys trying to relive their college days, hoping to score some co-ed pootang. After a while though I realize that there was something deeper that draws back the old SU folks. Perhaps it is familiarity, or perhaps the sense of “growing up,” my four years there were formative and influential. Perhaps it is the bond of friendship. Every year hundreds of people feel the pull of these factors and return to a place they once called home.
Fish head steam boat – Can you identify all the ingredients?
My homecoming to Singapore couldn’t be more opposite. First it wasn’t so much of a pull but a push to go back. All my friends were in New York. The only people I knew back in Singapore were my army buddies, the side effect of having spent most of my adolescence overseas. My mom and dad weren’t there too. Singapore wasn’t familiar. I left when I was twelve and only came back for a year and a half plus my two and half years in the army.
I heart charcoal
But the unfamiliarity sweetened the bitterness of leaving the place where I wanted to spend the rest of my life. On the first “proper” night back to Singapore (I had come back a couple weeks ago, but reported immediately for military training then left to visit my parents in Brunei,) my mother, who flew back with me from Brunei wanted to try a fish head steamboat restaurant which was featured on the Asian Food Channel. It was my first time eating that exotic version of a fish stew. And though I didn’t know it at the time, that meal came to represent what my return would be like.
Delicious demi glace like sauce after all the heat and reduction.
I was surprised by how much I liked it. There was so much going on from the various ingredients in the metal vessel. Was that a salted sour plum in there? Pork with the fish? I couldn’t help but be excited to taste the forgotten flavors of my home. And as the charcoal continued to boil off the stock, it changed from a clean tasting soup to a robust demi-glace like sauce.
Fish Face
It’s funny, when I was younger, I had everything planned out – high school, army, college, then live and work in New York. Well one of the hardest things about growing up though is that sometimes things don’t go as planned.
Maybe coming back to Singapore isn’t an exile but my version of Walden, “to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life,” or at least to slurp up the gelatinous face of a fish.
This blog wasn’t a spur of the moment decision. The stories you’ve read up to now have actually been planned months in advance. I used my time in Brunei to chronicle my journey of leaving New York and to sketched out the progression of this blog. Here is a look at my writing process:
Ethyl alcohol right next to my glass of mango juice.
I have an idea…
What if i added the two together?
The alcohol is pretty potent stuff. It’s used to preserve the spiders in my dad’s lab.
The bottle even comes with a convenient little spout. Just squeeze! Brilliant!
Mmm Yum!
This should help with my writer’s block! Love the spout design. They should bottle beer in this.
(Buzzed) I wonder what’s new on Facebook…
ZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz drool… zZZzzzzzz

Unfortunately didn’t get a good shot of the main plate which had more variety that on this plate.
Charcoal, meat and fat. The ingredients of deliciousness.
Ostrich meat!
And I’m done
Three Hammerhead pups and another baby shark at Jerudong Market in Brunei.
It’s a real meat (fish) market
Fresh Fish!
They all look good, even if there is no refrigeration or ice.
A Parrot fish. Isn’t it supposed to be poisonous?
Sting ray = Yummy!
That’s a really long fish.
The most popular fish in the market.
Beautiful
Sashimi?
This is want I do to get shots of food. Fish blood, guts and gore on my shorts from the “spray” of the fishmongers. I felt it on my legs too…
Produce section
Langsat, has a subtle grapefruit like taste but is really sweet.
Can you spot the chicken butt?
I love the smell of BBQ at night! (Inhales) Smells like BBQ!
Look at all that food and then multiply it by over a hundred stalls and you will get an idea of what kind of food orgy this place is.
Want some Tomato CATchup? A kitten snoozing next to a pail of ketchup.
Manukan Island
So many fishy-s
Real al-fresco dining
It’s Marilyn! Lauren’s cat from Brooklyn!
Talk about an open kitchen
Satay
Cat: Bite me
Me: You like me now doncha?
A guide getting ready to go into the blue (or turquoise?)
Me: So any sharks? Guide: Nope the coast is clear.
Navigating with a Mark I eyeball
Watching the setting sun while I off gas (= bleeding off nitrogen, not farting.)
The main dining area
Is that for us?
Night Dive
The food
Tablescape
The ‘rents
Yay more Langsat!
I love how they use charcoal as warmers
Making Roti Prata
Charcoal, like bacon, makes everything taste better
Paradise
I don’t want to leave
Where heaven and earth meet.
Market at Ranau
Charcoal Grill = Yum Yum in my belly
Square savory egg crepes?
Colorful Drinks! Wish I could try them all
More Drinks
I wonder if they knew about specific gravity before making this.
So many choices
My choice eventually
My chicken butts and skate wing
Delicious little rice flour “cakes” flavored with Pandan and i think baked then fried. So good.
Cross section, see how fluffy it is.
More markets on the road to Mount Kinabalu
Jackfruits
Honey and royal jelly
A Kadazan fruit vendor
Rambutans
Its like a mini waterfall
Lush
Like Ted Nugent, I like dressing in camo.
Moss
Yum! Mushrooms!
Looks inviting but its probably full of leeches.
A large female Trilobite Beetle feasting on cellulose matter of a tree.
Reminds me of a lobster tail
Langsat, one of my favorite fruits.
Cicada?
A leech, thank god for gutters, socks and boots. They never made it on my skin.
Getting a leech off me
Leeches that I found by my boots where I had my pants bloused in. I hate leeches.
Mount Kinabalu at around 4000m, is the highest point in South East Asia.
Green Bumpy Logans? Had a floral taste and scent, almost like jasmine. Sweeter than the normal logan too.
Mangosteen
More Mangosteen
The vividly pink pendulous inflorescences of the Medinilla speciosa coated with little gems of water after a rain.
Port View Seafood Village
Pristine Scallops
Closeup
Prawns
It’s as big as my hand
Oysters
Fried soft shell crab
The “Restaurant” at Sutera Resort Manukan Island
Going for my night dive
Setting up
Check that tablescape out Sandra Lee!
BBQ Seafood, Satay and Lamb.
Bought various cakes from the night market to see that was inside their leaf enclosures.
Close up
It’s like a boat
I didn’t like this one. I think it was made with beans.
?
??
Aargh! It’s the face-hugger egg from Aliens! But this one was filled with coconut
Hmmm?
Spicy. glutinous rice and shrimp paste. It sounds gross but it was really good.
A row of vendors at Gadong Night Market
Delish BBQ, notice the chicken “tail” at the top left hand corner
Chicken Butt
I heart anything cooked over charcoal
Fish!
Before open kitchens became trendy in restaurants they were doing it here
Coconut rice in leaves
Skate wings grilled with sambal, fish cooking.
So many drinks!
Food Food Food!
Cockles
Skate browning
BBQ Corner!
BBQ meat and bones, makes me want to get medieval.
Colorful Cakes
Looks wonderful
My favorite fruit, durian and champedak, fried. It just got so much better.
Using a fighter jet engine for a stove. It has two settings: high and afterburner.
I have absolutely no idea what all this colorful stuff is.
Leaves hide hidden treasure.
MOAR colorful cakes
Colorful people